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Choosing Summer Childcare
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One of the most important and stressful decisions a parent can make is choosing the right care for their child. As summer approaches, some parents might be looking for childcare options for their kids. But they need to first decide what type of care is the ideal fit for their child, as well as the family’s needs.

Nanny/Au Pair: Hiring a nanny or au pair is a popular choice for parents with young children, or several children needing care, and for parents who prefer to keep the kids at home instead of going to a camp or daycare. Parents will often choose this option when they have odd or very long work hours. Having a nanny/au pair allows your child to spend their day in a familiar environment with less routine and more flexibility.

Licensed Childcare Centre: These facilities often offer summer programs and group children by age. A daily routine is followed with regular planning of activities. In the summer, special outings are often offered, such as trips to water parks, the zoo, or beach. Parents often will choose this type of care because they want structure for their children and they want to ensure that activities and socialization are geared to their child’s age level.

Summer Camps: Summer camps often give parents the ability to give their children structure while they’re not in school, in an environment catered to their children’s interests (i.e. soccer camp, music camp, or nature camp). Summer camps can be offered as day camps for a week or more, or even as sleepover camps. Families can provide their children with a variety of camps over the summer, allowing children to build new skills and make new friends.

Explore all the options available in your community to determine which ones suit your family’s needs, make you feel comfortable, and cater your child’s interests.

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Summer Childcare
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Once you’ve selected which childcare option you’re going to use for the summer, you need to research the local providers. Asking the right questions will guide your decision, so here are some thoughts.

First, ask yourself these questions:

  • Does the childcare provider have the qualifications, skills, and personality I feel that my child needs?
  • Is this a safe, healthy and clean childcare environment?
  • What activities will my child do on a regular basis? Can parents give input into what is done during the day?

If time permits, visit the childcare centre, daycare, or summer camp location and discuss your expectations with the potential childcare provider, and always check references before deciding which service to use. Good quality childcare providers support the physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development of children in their care.

Secondly, ask the childcare provider these questions:

For a Nanny/Au Pair

  • Do they have an up-to-date background check? Are they willing to be interviewed by you beforehand?
  • What are their available hours? What wage do they expect? Ask them to sign a written contract with you stating the hours, wage, and duties.
  • Are they taking any vacations or time off over the summer?
  • Are they comfortable with taking your children swimming and do they have any Red Cross qualifications for water safety?

As the parent, lead the nanny/au pair in what you’d like your child to do this summer—don’t just leave it up to the caregiver. Discuss your expectations with your caregiver, and then let he/she tell you what they have planned in order to establish open communications right away.

For a Childcare Centre or Summer Camp

  • What is the staff-to-child ratio? Will your child receive the attention and care you expect?
  • How does the centre or camp hire staff? Are there volunteers? How many?
  • What emergency procedures are in place? Are these communicated to the child(ren)?
  • What are the pick-up and drop-off times? Is there a late fee for late pick-ups?
  • What does a typical day look like for my child?

Taking the time to thoroughly research your options will set your child up for a fun and memorable summer.

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Babysitting 101
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Like many 12 year olds, my daughter recently completed her “Babysitting Course”, which in theory will enable her to venture forth into the world of watching other people’s children with insight, knowledge, and experience.  However, after having reviewed the course materials and grilling her on the information that was shared, I do believe that as a mother of four I should share some vital facts which seem to have been left out of the course content.

  • Changing a diaper on a teddy bear, life sized baby doll or stuffed Elmo is nothing like changing the diaper on a real life, pooping baby.  In order to replicate this activity without borrowing an actual baby, you could practice by stuffing an angry octopus into a small plastic bag.  About 14 times. For one change.  And if you think the squid ink is bad, well…
  • Most children do not like going to bed. Most babysitting jobs span the exact timeline of getting children into bed. This is not an accident by the employing parents. They may have in fact secured your babysitting services entirely to avoid putting their own children to bed, for one night. A refusal to go to bed by the child, coupled with the 114th reading of GoodNight Moon will wear down even the most patient of parents.  They’ve decided it’s your turn. Good luck. Wear protection.
  • Parents will tell you that as long as the kids are safe, happy, and healthy (and put to bed on time, as per the last point), they aren’t fussed if you make a mess doing arts and crafts, feeding the kids, or playing games/building forts. This is a lie. We all hate coming home to a messy house and if you need to leave Junior in front of the television or video game for half an hour before we get home, it’s fine with most of us if it means all the couch cushions are back in their rightful spots.
  • Parents who tell you outright that they try to limit their children to only half an hour of television per night are most likely to be the ones who let their kids watch television non-stop all week and are trying to lower their child’s average hours of viewing for that week, all in one night, courtesy of you. Good luck with that. Start building that fort.
  • Use the “Well I’m just going to call your Mother and ask her” threats wisely. Kids catch on to this really quickly (just like the fake calls to Santa and the Easter Bunny).  Practicing a fake one-way conversation with fake angry Mom is good practice for any babysitter.  Do some role play with your friends.
  • It’s not always a bad thing if the parents don’t have the money to pay you on the spot when they get home. Most of us feel so guilty that we made you wait for your money that we top up even more the next day when we drop it off.  And never say “It’s too much.” We know what the real cost is of watching our own kids. It’s not too much. Reading GoodNight Moon one more time? Now that’s “too much”.

 

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Childcare choices & What they mean to your bank account
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Actress and comedian Amy Poehler was recently named one of Time magazine’s “100 Most Influential People”. At the award gala in New York, Amy used her acceptance speech to give a shout out to the women who help care for her two children. She encouraged working women everywhere to take a moment to thank their nannies and babysitters: “Those are people who love your children as much as you do, and who inspire them and influence them.”

According to ivillage.com, nearly three-quarters of moms are juggling jobs and families. A recent poll by ivillage.com and TodayMoms.com found that nearly 70 percent of working moms would choose to have an assistant at home rather than an assistant at the office.
Decisions around childcare can be overwhelming. For those without extended family to help take care of the kids, it’s even more fraught with complications. Do you choose daycare or a nanny? If a nanny, live-in or live-out? Does it even make sense to go back to work if your entire paycheque ends up paying for the childcare?

Daycare or not to daycare?

Going by the price of daycare, Ontario is the most expensive province in which to raise a child. The average daycare cost for childcare in Ontario ranges from $33/day for a school-age child to $57/day for an infant. Manitoba offers parents some of the lowest daycare rates, between an average of $15/day for a school-age child to $28/day for an infant.

How much for Mary Poppins?

No matter the province, however, daycare rates tend to be much higher in cities than in rural areas. For urban working moms or those with two or three kids to pay for, hiring a nanny is sometimes more economical than daycare.

According to Today’s Parent, the average weekly salary for a live-out nanny ranges between $450-$750. For a live-in nanny, the average weekly salary is $300 plus room and board. Again, wages vary widely depending on the province you are in.

If you’re planning to sponsor your nanny from abroad, The Human Resources and Skills Development Canada website posts all the wages and requirements you need to know, organized by province, under the “Live-in Caregiver Program”.

What help does the government provide?

For working parents, childcare expenses can be deducted on your tax return through the Working Income Tax Benefit (WIBT). Generally speaking, the lower-income spouse can deduct the childcare expenses up to a maximum of $7,000 for each child under the age of seven, and $4,000 for each child between the ages of seven to sixteen.

A disability tax credit is also available for kids with physical or mental impairments and the age limit is broader than for other kids. Childcare expenses in this case may be deducted up to a maximum of $10,000.

Remember to keep your receipts for these expenses. A guide to eligible expenses can be found on the Canada Revenue Agency’s (CRA) website, Form T778. Be aware that the total deduction for these expenses cannot exceed two-thirds of your earned income.

In addition to tax credits, the federal and provincial governments offer programs to help with childcare costs based on income, such as the Canada Child Tax Benefit (CCTB). The federal government also provides a Universal Childcare Benefit (UCCB) of $100 a month for each child under the age of six, irrespective of your family income. (While it won’t make much of a dent in daycare fees, that should cover babysitting for a couple date nights out for mom and dad, at the very least!)

To help you sort out what you may be eligible for, check with CRA’s benefits calculator or better yet, talk to your tax advisor.

The choice to stay at home

According to insure.com, an online American insurance brokerage and information site, if you were to pay professional service providers to do all the various tasks and errands a typical mom does in a year, it would cost $61,436. This includes activities such as cooking, driving, cleaning, party planning, shopping and keeping an eye on those kids. With childcare directly responsible for about half of that cost, it makes financial sense for many women to choose not to work outside the home.

As a sidebar, insure.com makes a great point that the “hidden costs” of all these services provided by mom ought to be insured. Quite often couples ensure they have life insurance for the breadwinner and forget that the person who stays at home with the kids should be covered by adequate life insurance as well.

So many decisions

The childcare choice is ultimately a highly personal one. Only you know what the right kind of care is for your family. For those working moms who have helpers, whether family members, daycare centres or nannies, there is no doubt they would consider these caregivers worth their weight in gold.

As Amy said at the Time 100 gala: “On behalf of every sister and mother and person who stands in your kitchen and helps you love your child, I say thank you—and I celebrate you tonight.” Let’s all go home and do the same!

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