Surviving Summer Camp for the First Time

Once school’s out and summer’s in, unless you have the good fortune to have summers off yourself, chances are your kiddos are going to camp. Kids that are used to daycare should have no difficulty adjusting to new places and faces however if you have a new day camper on your hands there may be some growing pains. Here are some tips to set your kids up for success for summer camp…

Surviving Summer Camp for the First Time:

Decide your expectations and state them clearly to your child. If it doesn’t matter whether they go for one day and then skip the rest, that’s fine. If your plan is for them to attend every day, make that very clear and follow through.
Be sure to read the instructions and packing lists ahead of time and work with your child to be they have everything they need.
If your child can see the location ahead of time, or look at pictures online, it may help them feel more comfortable. Discussing the schedule will also help them feel more in control of the situation.
Nerves are normal. Empathise and teach some strategies for dealing with the feelings. “Sounds like you feel a bit nervous, that’s a normal feeling when you are doing something new. Let’s help you find your courage so that you know how to handle that nervous feeling.” (Be sure they knows what to say if they have questions and who they can ask; Be sure that they knows their phone number or that it is written somewhere if they needs help; They might imagine that they are a brave character facing this situation.)
Check your own feelings: if you are concerned, be sure that the camp is safe and has a good reputation. Ask questions to feel comfortable and then express your confidence to your kids and your belief that they are capable. Plan your drop-off routine on the first day so that everyone is set up for success. Plan a quick hug and know your exit line: I’ll be back at 3pm and look forward to hearing about your exciting first day. I know you can do this! Then, LEAVE.

Happy Summer and Happy Camping! Soon enough you’ll be tackling sleepaway camp!