Keeping Older Kids and Teens Busy This Summer

Keeping Older Kids and Teens Busy During the Summer - SavvyMom

If they don’t want or can’t find a full-time job, here’s how to keep teens and older kids busy during the summer

Summer with little kids can feel like a scheduling puzzle with different daycare and camp pick up locations and times. And summer with teens and older kids can feel like a big mystery.

If they’re not actually too old for many camps, they definitely think and feel like they are. And it is not easy these days for teens to find a full-time summer job. And while they are fully capable of sleeping until past noon and declaring there is “nothing to do” we really want our teens and older kids to have productive, active, social, and fun summers. And they can have that even without a packed schedule or formal employment.

The key is helping teens create just enough structure to keep them moving, motivated, and connected, and also still giving them the downtime they’ve been waiting for all school year.

Here are some smart ways to keep your teens and older kids busy this summer:

Help Create Them a Loose Weekly Routine

Teens don’t necessarily need a colour-coded summer schedule or a rigid routine, but they do benefit from some rhythm. A simple weekly plan can help prevent the days from blurring into one long summer scroll. The plan doesn’t have to be super intense. It just helps to give their weeks off a little shape.

Help them build their weeks around a few anchors:

  • one fitness or movement goal
  • one household responsibility
  • one social plan
  • one outdoor activity
  • one skill-building activity
  • one thing that helps someone else

Take Advantage of Free Gym Access

For teens who are missing school sports, phys-ed class, or myriad after-school activities, summer can register as a big drop in movement. That matters, especially when so much teen socializing and downtime happens on screens.

Planet Fitness Canada has brought back its annual High School Summer Pass program, inviting high school teens ages 14–19 to work out for free at participating Planet Fitness locations in Canada from June 1 through August 31. Teens can register at PlanetFitness.ca/SummerPass.

The initiative is especially timely: according to a new Planet Fitness study, 90% of Canadian teens say physical activity helps them feel better mentally, but only 41% say they turn to exercise when they’re feeling stressed or down. A free gym pass can be a low-pressure way for teens to build confidence, stay active, and create a healthy summer routine.

For parents, it’s also a practical option on hot, rainy, or the ever-popular “I’m bored” days and especially for older teens who want a bit more independence.

Encourage a Part-Time or Occasional Job

Not every teen will land (or even want) a full-time summer job, and that’s okay. Smaller work opportunities can still teach responsibility, confidence, and money management.

Even a few hours a week can give teens purpose and spending money. Here are some ideas:

  • babysitting
  • dog walking
  • lawn mowing
  • tutoring younger kids
  • helping neighbours with errands
  • working a few shifts at a local business
  • refereeing or coaching younger sports teams
  • helping family friends with cottage or yard work

Suggest Volunteering

Volunteering is a great option for teens who need experience but can’t find paid work yet and can help with high school volunteer hour requirements. Volunteering can also help teens discover what they enjoy, or what they definitely don’t.

Places to look for work as a volunteer:

  • libraries
  • food banks
  • animal shelters
  • summer festivals
  • community centres
  • day camps
  • seniors’ residences
  • local charities
  • sports organizations

Let Them Build a Skill

Summer is a great time for teens to try something that doesn’t come with marks, tests, or pressure. The goal isn’t to turn summer into school. It’s to help them feel capable and expand their knowledge.

They could:

  • learn to cook five real meals
  • take a first aid or babysitting course
  • practice driving
  • learn basic budgeting
  • start strength training
  • try photography
  • learn video editing
  • take an online course
  • improve swimming skills
  • build a simple website or portfolio

Give Them Real Responsibilities at Home

If they’re old enough to have strong opinions about dinner, they’re old enough to help make it. That isn’t a punishment. Cooking is an essential life skill, and summer is a great time to hand over more household responsibility:

  • cooking one dinner a week
  • doing their own laundry
  • walking the dog
  • grocery shopping for a meal
  • cleaning bathrooms
  • mowing the lawn
  • helping with younger siblings
  • packing for family trips

Plan Low-Key Adventures They Won’t Immediately Reject

Older kids may roll their eyes at “family fun,” but many still like doing things with their family especially if snacks are involved. Sometimes the trick is not overselling it.

You can suggest:

  • night swimming
  • mini golf
  • beach days
  • outdoor movies
  • food truck festivals
  • hikes with a good lookout
  • thrift store challenges
  • amusement parks
  • escape rooms
  • baseball games
  • late-night ice cream runs

Encourage Screen-Free Blocks of time (Not Entirely Screen-Free Summers)

A completely screen-free summer is probably not realistic for most families with teens. But screen-free blocks can help manage the rot. Framing it around balance is likely to work much better than turning it into a battle.

Try suggesting:

  • no phones before breakfast
  • a daily walk before gaming
  • phone-free family dinners
  • one outdoor activity before screens
  • charging phones outside bedrooms overnight

Help Them Make Social Plans

Some teens are great at organizing themselves. Others need a nudge. Summer can get lonely for teens when school routines disappear, so helping them stay connected is important.

Encourage them to:

  • invite a friend to the gym
  • plan a movie night
  • meet up for basketball or tennis
  • go swimming
  • host a backyard hangout
  • volunteer with a friend
  • take transit somewhere safe together
  • plan a low-cost day out

Leave Room for Boredom

This may be the hardest one for teens and parents.

Not every hour needs to be filled. Boredom can lead to creativity, rest, and independence… eventually. After the complaining phase.

A good summer for teens doesn’t have to be packed with camps, jobs, and enrichment. It can include movement, friends, chores, sleep, volunteering, snacks, and a little bit of figuring themselves out.

If they can come out of summer with stronger habits, a few new skills, and slightly less time spent horizontal with a phone six inches from their face? That’s a win.

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